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This is a stupid question, but does anyone here at his or her day job work with anyone who can only be described as a complete and total jerkoff? Building on that, does anyone have to deal with this type of person in a supervisory position over you?

Having a bad day here at work, folks, and I know that everyone has those "people" that make the day go shitty. I was just interested in reading other people's rants to reinforce the fact that I'm not the only person in the world who has this to deal with.

EDIT: Also, anybody hiring out there?!?!? :x :x :x :x :x :x :x :x

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Hell Rob, Ive worked places where the entire company was staffed with assholes. You are not alone brother! It seems everywhere Ive gone, the wrong people are always the ones in charge. My fiance's Aunt, once told me its called "The Peterson Principle", from a book she read. We were having a conversation on why it always seems like upper and middle management dont really know their asses from a hole in the ground. According to this Peterson Principle, most of the intelligent and creative people are drawn to the arts and sciences. That leaves the rest of the dimwitted sheep, to staff management. She was supposed to send me the book, but she never did. But the theory itself makes sense.. Hang in there, and dont let the bastards drag you down.
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Baceman Spiff wrote:Hell Rob, Ive worked places where the entire company was staffed with assholes.
If you find yourself in this situation, then maybe it's actually you and not everyone else.
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rreihart wrote:
Baceman Spiff wrote:Hell Rob, Ive worked places where the entire company was staffed with assholes.
If you find yourself in this situation, then maybe it's actually you and not everyone else.
Hmmm....nope. But thanks for your imput Dr Phil.
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I'm the top of the foodchain here at my office.
I do not directly interact with my superiors on a daily basis, but when I do
they're great to work with. We promote from within here, so everyone has started in the same place. Plus politics are not welcome in this environment, so Dickheads get get cut like dead wood and quickly.
I am very grateful for my job because I've def. been in your situation before. Sometimes I'm sure my staff thinks I'm being a dick, but they also know we have a job to do. You see there is a difference between holding people accountable and just blaming somebody and expecting "obedience". Places where everyone is an Asshole are very common, the people aren't Assholes on purpose they have to be to survive at their job. In this case get the fuck outta there ASAP cuz it will never improve. I say if someone is being a dick call'em on it, without being rude of course, but most times the problem will get resolved.
If it gets worse, you know it's time to start looking for a new job.
Working in constant fear of getting fired or bitched out or blamed is bullshit, and there are too many other places to work as long as your willing to WORK.
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I appreciate the input thus far, guys, but keep it coming. The only thing keeping me from being a "disgruntled" employee at this point is the lack of a firearm. :shock: j/k

Brian, you sound like you've worked here before. And I agree with you that the situation with this individual is never going to change. I've watched this guy chase people from this office over the years with his tactics and the worst part about it is, he's viewed as the "golden boy" by the owner. Everyone else in the office absolutely hates him and his tactics — he tries to rule with intimidation. It works on most people; they just cower when he pulls his $hit because they're afraid of him running to the owner and selling him a bill of goods.

He has a "revolving $hit list" and it just so happens to be my turn at the top of that list right now. At the same time, people who were on his list two weeks ago are now his "best buddies" who can do no wrong. I actually called him on his crap this morning and told him, "we're on the same team here, why can't you just sit down and talk with me about whatever your problem is?"

His response was, "Fuck you, Rob." And he said this in earshot of other employees that he was unaware were in the vicinity. These people heard both sides of the "conversation" and couldn't believe what they heard, but at the same time, they could believe it because they've been there before personally.

Afraid of work? Not me. I write for a newspaper, which involves pretty much being "on call" 24 hours a day. In the past, I've done things like spend all night on the scene of a river rescue, covered structure fires in the middle of the night in the dead of winter, I've covered appearances of two sitting US presidents and I even stood before the Pentagon in Washington, D.C. as smoke rolled from a gapig hole in its side. In the past two weeks, I've had to cancel two scheduled practices with the band because of last minute assignments, which is cool — priorities and all. I also do photography, page layout (pagination), graphic design, special publication design and I coordinate and edit a weekly School News Page which involves writers and photographers from eight area school districts, even though my job description is "news reporter."

This guy has never taken a photo in his life because he can't, he wouldn't know what to do if he sat down in front of Quark (the computer program most newspapers use for pagination), he never leaves the confines of his desk and as far as his writing goes, let's just say it only takes about 30 seconds to get on the AP wire, select an interesting story and put your name on it, then add a few additional lines of crap to legitimize it.

That's plagiarism, BTW, and it's illegal.

Baceman, The Peterson Principle sounds interesting. I'm Googling right now.

Thanks again for the input. Back to the classifieds I go.

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Hang in there, Rob. I worked with some of the stupidest people in history during my radio tenure, and with some of the best and smartest too. But being employed beats the hell out of being unemployed. But if you're serious, the Aloona Mirror is hiring someone as a copy editor. I'd apply, but I don't have Quark experience, although I'm sure I could pick it up quickly. Here's the ad:

COPY EDITOR/PAGE DESIGNER


The Altoona Mirror has an immediate opening for a full-time copy editor/ page designer in our news department. Candidate must have working knowledge of the English language, AP style and QuarkXPress. Bachelor's degree in journalism or related field and experience is required. Salary commensurate with experience. Send resume and layout samples to

Lori Matta-Rhode, News Editor
Altoona Mirror
301 Cayuga Ave
Altoona, PA 16602

Questions can be answered at 814-946-7451

or lrhode@altoonamirror.com

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Leave work a little early, and hide beside his car. When he gets in range, nail him with some frozen King Size Snickers! Aim right between his weasel eyes! Or at the very least take a minute and just visualize that. Maybe that'll break some tension. 8)
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Thanks a bunch for the lead, Kev. As a matter of fact, I talked to Lori a few months ago regarding the same position. Apparently, whoever filled it then didn't pan out. I actually have her on my call list today.

Last time, I elected not to apply for the job because it required "some Saturday nights" which really doesn't work for me for obvious reasons. bad daZe is providing my family with significant supplemental income at this point and I really can't just let that go, nor would I want to. I'm hoping to get the chance to negotiate some kind of arrangement that I could take the job without giving up the Saturday nights.

Dammit ...

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That's a tough call to make, and I totally understand. Some of the jobs that I've been interested in I've had to turn down due to traveling for the band on a Saturday. When we play at The Shade Mountain Inn, for example, I usually have to leave Altoona by 4PM to meet the guys. But I can't give up the income, or the fix that I get from being onstage. Guess my priorities are all FUBAR, LOL.
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Baceman Spiff wrote:Leave work a little early, and hide beside his car. When he gets in range, nail him with some frozen King Size Snickers! Aim right between his weasel eyes! Or at the very least take a minute and just visualize that. Maybe that'll break some tension. 8)
Visualized it ... cracked his skull wide open.

See, Snickers really do satisfy ...

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Baceman Spiff wrote:
rreihart wrote:
Baceman Spiff wrote:Hell Rob, Ive worked places where the entire company was staffed with assholes.
If you find yourself in this situation, then maybe it's actually you and not everyone else.
Hmmm....nope. But thanks for your imput Dr Phil.
Did you mean input?
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Yup thats what I meant! Thanks again Doc. You're rackin up the karma today.
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rreihart wrote:
Baceman Spiff wrote:
rreihart wrote: If you find yourself in this situation, then maybe it's actually you and not everyone else.
Hmmm....nope. But thanks for your imput Dr Phil.
Did you mean input?
Yeah, this is pertinent to the topic ... :? Thanks for your $.02.

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Hope your day starts going better man.
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Baceman Spiff wrote:Yup thats what I meant! Thanks again Doc. You're rackin up the karma today.
I don't believe in karma. I am driven by divinity.

But anyway, to get back on topic. I am a suppressed, raging malcontent. If their is such a thing?
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Rob, it sucks that people have to put up with this type of shit just to make an honest living. People who do not know how to lead always go one way or the other. They either try to intimidate everyone and scare people away, or they try to be everyones best friend and get people fired due to low performance. Hey, I'll PM you some Info about the company I work for. We do trade publications. They're based out of the Philly area, but I know many of the Editors work remotely (from home).
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Awesome. Thanks, friend.

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First, if an employee is unhappy they are called disgruntled. Does that mean if an employee is happy they are gruntled?

Anyway, I have had to work with jerks as employees reporting to me, bosses I worked for, and my peers. Getting up in the morning and knowing you have to deal with idiots is not good and sets your mood for the entire day before you even leave the house. I worked for a very large utility company and I was assigned to a project to improve the work environment. Some of the things we did were trying to make the workplace more positive and one thing was to identify the negative, problem causing employees. We had employees evaluate each other and most of the problem employees came out on top. The interesting thing is that some of them did not think they were the problem until this happened and some of them improved. Others will be jerks no matter what. As I always say, one person does not make a team, but one person can break a team and bring the rest of the people around them down. I encounter so many people at businesses who are totally unprofessional, rude morons and I always wonder how they got and keep their jobs.

Now, I work for myself; so, I have to deal with me everyday.
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My only gripe is a unique problem..I work with acedemia brainiacs (no I am not one) and everyone here is SUPER NICE to the point of falling all over each other, but many seem to not have a clue whats going on. They have lots of difficulty making decisions, real wishy-washy, they like to argue or 'discuss', like we'll have this big meeting about an up-coming study and I'll leave the meeting not knowing anymore than I did going in, it just presented more questions. They change their minds so much they forget everything. There's a joke up here that the more initials after a name the more (common sense) stupid they are.
All in all I can't complain because at least no-one would ever yell at me or anything and I get to do most of my work pretty independently. I just get frustrated sometimes.
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I've been rather fortunate in that I really haven't worked with anyone whom I disliked at a job. Of course, I've always worked for smaller companies/departments, so there's a lot less chance of an asshole being amongst the bunch. You almost have to get along with each other, or life at work is just going to suck for everybody. Dealing with clients is a different story. There have been clients whom I've wanted to punch in the face for their ignorance and/or assholeness. I have nothing but respect for anyone who works in retail, because there's no way I could deal with that kind of job.

It's funny that Rob posted this thread, because last semester, I had to do a job stress analysis on someone for an I/O psychology class I had, and I did mine on Rob. The results were pretty interesting. But I say that Rob just quits his day job, we buy a bus like Til December did, and tour up and down the coast. :D
ZappasXWife wrote:My only gripe is a unique problem..I work with acedemia brainiacs (no I am not one) and everyone here is SUPER NICE to the point of falling all over each other, but many seem to not have a clue whats going on. They have lots of difficulty making decisions, real wishy-washy, they like to argue or 'discuss', like we'll have this big meeting about an up-coming study and I'll leave the meeting not knowing anymore than I did going in, it just presented more questions. They change their minds so much they forget everything. There's a joke up here that the more initials after a name the more (common sense) stupid they are.
All in all I can't complain because at least no-one would ever yell at me or anything and I get to do most of my work pretty independently. I just get frustrated sometimes.
This is largely the reason I've decided against a career in academia and my graduate school program choices are going to reflect that. That's nothing against academics, but I'd rather get my hands dirty in the private sector.
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Yeah bad day here too. I got bounced by like five of my bosses because I didn't put a cover sheet on my TPS report. Then I found out there's a big staff meeting later & they're going to tell us that they're bringing in consultants which can't be good. Oh hell, got to get you laughin' Rob. We'll get that frustration out Saturday at Davey's. I have a feeling we'll start with the Pantera this week hey? Hang in there dude.
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This is a good thread ... I'm loving the feedback, peeps.

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All of this is why I'm now driving a dump truck for a living. I go out ALONE, drive around in circles ALONE, and get paid decent money. 8)

Hey Rob, tell them you're doing a breaking story on motorcycle travel. I'll pick you up and you can be my bitch! :lol:
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Bag wrote:All of this is why I'm now driving a dump truck for a living. I go out ALONE, drive around in circles ALONE, and get paid decent money.
I hear ya Bag,but don't forget all the assholes in four wheelers(and some big trucks). I drive for NES&L and been laid off all winter,can't wait to get back and deal w/ all the idiots on the highways!! :shock: :shock:
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