Esa Wrote:
"how will i explain that i know i like this without him having a bad opinion of me"
This is the hippocrasy right here. I never understood the logic of placing a premium on female virginity, not in this day and age. In ancient times when, a man might be worried about the continuation of the line or true paternity, it made more sense to value virginity.
In this sexually enlightened age, virginity is IMO an archaic virtue.
If a woman doesn't know what she wants, how do you expect me to find it and to be trully blunt:
If a woman is gonna bring her teeth anywhere near my sexual organs: I want to her to know what she is doing.
at some point I think we all need to be dragged into the 21st Century
But the real truth is it isn't us guys who need to be told this, most guys with any kind of common sense, will realize that a womans sexual past is A) none of his business and B) a potential asset in that, if she knows what gets her off and can tell you, you can do it for it and she can respond in kind.
It's the women who gossip and back stab who give a girl "a reputation", most guys are just happy to get some.
and any of you macho idiots who think "I don't need to be told", well, I humbly refer you to the Deli Scene in "When Harry Met Sally".
It just seems to me that most of us need to get real about this, not that I expect much of that here.
---->JMS
If you sleep with 10 people, you are a whore. If you sleep with 20 people, you are a dirty whore. For every 10 people you sleep with after that you earn yourself another dirty. That means if you slept with 40 people, you are a dirty dirty dirty whore. If you sleep with 100 people, you earn yourself the title of being a diamond dirty whore.
