An Apology? Not quite.

[esa]

I just want to say something once, that's it. This is what I had in my mail box this morning. (I'm leaving their name out) I would have just sent it back to them, but because you hit a nerve, then I'll just openly share this with everyone so I can be clear on this.

About people you never knew on RP. They happen to be good friends, you dont have to post about every one who passes here. You posted this about Albert Castrrchini.
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Seemed like a real corn ball and very into the music going on.

Corn ball? Why dont you stay out of lives you never knew. The cornball remark was worst i ever heard here......wake up sista!

This is what I have to say. I'm sorry that I've not walked the music scene thirty plus years and got to have these great little clicky relationships that you seem to have. I wasn't lucky enough to know this man as well as you did, apparently, but I do know this: the few times I had conversation with him, he seemed like a damn good guy. I called him a corn ball because the last time I was in a bad mood and he pulled out every bad joke he could think of until he got a smile out of me. Basically doing this for a complete stranger, just to make them smile. So before you jump my ass about how I want to say something nice about the deceased, look at yourself. Get off your high horse.

I don't post on here to just see myself talk. If I wanted to do this, I'd make up my own little thread and ask myself indepth questions of beans and breasts. I post on here alot because I like what is being talked about. I have strong opinions.

And when I don't know who it was that died, then I offer my condolences to these people and not make too much of a comment. Just letting the people here know that one of the members is thinking about them in their time of grief. Hopefully urging them to share a cool story about their friend.

SO because my opinion doesn't matter because I've not gotten trashed with any of these dead people or because I don't have music war stories to share about them, I will shut my mouth about anyone else here that says a friend kicked it. It's a shame that we're not allowed to be human anymore and express sympathy. I forgot that you're not to help unburden someones' pain. That's my last post on any death notice topic.

[bassist_25]

If I wanted to do this, I'd make up my own little thread and ask myself indepth questions of beans and breasts.

Yeah, but it would be cool as hell if you did that.

Personally, I think Ron should make a forum dedicated soley to beans..........and breasts, but mostly beans. Anyhoo, that's just the bean influenced opinion of one bass guy.

[facingwest]

If I wanted to do this, I'd make up my own little thread and ask myself indepth questions of beans and breasts.

Yeah, but it would be cool as hell if you did that.

Personally, I think Ron should make a forum dedicated soley to beans..........and breasts, but mostly beans. Anyhoo, that's just the bean influenced opinion of one bass guy.

I second the motion!! Beans and breasts would be a great thread.

[Griff]

Hey esa, I personally dont know you but I can tell you didnt mean any harm, if it makes you feal better I also get misunderstood by people that dont know me, so I just go on with myself and try not to let things get to me. if a person misunderstands ones personallity then there is'nt a whole lot you can do about it

[Mackovyak]

Wow.

It seems to me that someone just doesn't know how to deal with the passing of someone close. Which is fine, we all go through it at one point or another. However, instead of moving on, this person seems to think the only way to feel better is to make others miserable and irritated.

Esa, I've never met you, but in all honesty. Who in their right mind would deliberately (sp?) attack the deceased friend of many in a public forum????? On that principle alone, I wouldn't take what you wrote as offensive. Add to that the fact that you seem like a kind hearted person, I would say that this person has some serious issues still going on and you just happened to be the target of it. Such a shame that people sometimes don't think, but hey, I wouldn't let it get to ya.

Now, about this beans and breasts forum, what do you guys think of this.....


http://www.patrick.fm/boobies/boobies.php?text=beans


Justin

[WitchChic]

Esa I do know you and I happen to think your a really cool person...I think that maybe sometimes ppl take things the wrong way and maybe they need to lash out due to their own personal grief....Dont take it to heart...I know you and I know you mean well and I have never seen anything in any of your post that would ever make me think differently....
Its a shame that you have been made to feel you cant pass along warm wishes and prayers and hugs...

I hope that this person hasnt discouraged you in posting again to offer your condolences....Cuz sometimes even a strangers thoughts mean sooo much...

*HUGS*
WitchChic!!!

[songsmith]

Justin, that may be the most brilliant thing anyone has ever posted here!
I'm dying, I'm just laughing like a fool. Man, I just love boobs, and beans, hey, those are yummy, too. I think those tattonga's belong to ZappasWife, at least that's how I imagine 'em.

Esa, I'd let the whole thing pass. Anger is one of the stages of grief, and people sometimes get overly picky when they normally wouldn't... I doubt they meant anything mean any more than you did. Let it ride, kiddo. ------>JMS

[ZappasXWife]

no mine are bigger, and that is not my handwriting, and I don't just like beans I LOVE THEM

[PastorofMuppets]

some people's kids

[Mackovyak]

I've been holding on to that link for a while looking for the right time/place to use it. It just felt fitting!

Justin