Need to let some steam off

bassist4life2004 · Post by **bassist4life2004** » Sunday Oct 15, 2006

Oh, by the way, for those of you who dont know, our new drummer is Tim Layton formerly of 3 Broken Dolls. Dude, learned all of our songs in 3 weeks, thats 40 some songs in 3 fuckin weeks....Unheard of. Hopefully Cyphin has that kind of luck, shit, i wish anyone whos looking for band members that kind of luck.

Airing dirty laundry on a public forum is not the way to attract members of a band. If it were me auditioning and i saw this, it would deter me from being in the band for the simple fact that i would be afraid of the band dragging my name through the mud.

I for one would not get on here and say bad things about my band members, like eric is a complete scumbag, or mitch likes little boys. I certainly wouldnt get on here and say that kind of stuff, never.....ever. And i would never talk shit on someone from another band, like revealing bobby watters has "relations" with small farm animals. That shit just doesnt fly in a public setting...

Banned · Post by **Banned** » Sunday Oct 15, 2006

If the guy wants to bitch, let 'em bitch. Some people might think it unprofessional, some might not. Some people will even care less about whatever the guy is bitching about. It all boils down to your opinion so I feel there are no right and wrong answers here.

I've worked with assholes before and they always ended up getting fired. You need to work with like-minded people and unfortunately that doesn't always happen.

Honestly, there needs to be less sugar coating on some of these issues and posts. It seems as if everybody treads lightly so as not to piss anther person off. I don't think anybody on here has any personal grudges against any other person, it's all just opinions so I say let 'er rip. If you get offended by what I might say or think, I could care less.

I don't think any less of this guy, he was just ranting. Yes, it's on a public forum, but there were no names mentioned. I could find out names if I wanted to but I don't care to 'cuz it's none of my business.

Personally, there are a lot of people out there that are playing that SHOULDN'T be playing either because of lack of talent or just plain lack of respect for other musicians and the business itself. If you're too wrapped up in other things to have time for a band, then don't lead your bandmates on, get on track or get out.

I wouldn't recommend "musicians" such as this drummer to anyone I knew if I knew there were going to be problems. It just makes sense.

I like hearing people rant and rave because it shows that everyone does go through the same dilemmas in "band-dome."

Just don't bash Rockpage because it is a good source of info and a good source for networking.

bassist_25 · Post by **bassist_25** » Monday Oct 16, 2006

bugglez24 wrote:
Honestly, there needs to be less sugar coating on some of these issues and posts. It seems as if everybody treads lightly so as not to piss anther person off. I don't think anybody on here has any personal grudges against any other person, it's all just opinions so I say let 'er rip. If you get offended by what I might say or think, I could care less.

Personally, there are a lot of people out there that are playing that SHOULDN'T be playing either because of lack of talent or just plain lack of respect for other musicians and the business itself. If you're too wrapped up in other things to have time for a band, then don't lead your bandmates on, get on track or get out.

Hell yeah, Scott! I couldn't agree with you more, especially on these two points!

Asundor · Post by **Asundor** » Monday Oct 16, 2006

Lots of good points. As much as I honestly would like to drag his name out and share it with you I still have more respect than that. This guy has put us through so much the last few months. But without getting in to some big long story I'll leave it at that cause the problem is done and has been solves. He got the boot and a big fuck you pal. By any means by coming on here and posting this was I ever trying to get anyone pissed off I just needed to vent a little. We are just like any other band out there trying to make a name for them selves and all you know what it is like. There was 5 of us and it only takes one asshole in the bunch to ruin that. It just makes a band look like total shit, It doesn;t matter how many times you tell someone your sorry everyone isen't as understanding as some people. Unfortunetly in our case the owner was understanding but still upset.

Plastered Bastards · Post by **Plastered Bastards** » Monday Oct 16, 2006

bugglez24 wrote:If the guy wants to bitch, let 'em bitch. Some people might think it unprofessional, some might not. Some people will even care less about whatever the guy is bitching about. It all boils down to your opinion so I feel there are no right and wrong answers here.

I've worked with assholes before and they always ended up getting fired. You need to work with like-minded people and unfortunately that doesn't always happen.

Honestly, there needs to be less sugar coating on some of these issues and posts. It seems as if everybody treads lightly so as not to piss anther person off. I don't think anybody on here has any personal grudges against any other person, it's all just opinions so I say let 'er rip. If you get offended by what I might say or think, I could care less.

I don't think any less of this guy, he was just ranting. Yes, it's on a public forum, but there were no names mentioned. I could find out names if I wanted to but I don't care to 'cuz it's none of my business.

Personally, there are a lot of people out there that are playing that SHOULDN'T be playing either because of lack of talent or just plain lack of respect for other musicians and the business itself. If you're too wrapped up in other things to have time for a band, then don't lead your bandmates on, get on track or get out.

I wouldn't recommend "musicians" such as this drummer to anyone I knew if I knew there were going to be problems. It just makes sense.

I like hearing people rant and rave because it shows that everyone does go through the same dilemmas in "band-dome."

Just don't bash Rockpage because it is a good source of info and a good source for networking.

I kinda wanted to say the same thing but I didn't wanna be called a prick for it.
So,Thank you Buggle
But I still say punch the guy in the yam bag

Cheers!!!!!!!!

Asundor · Post by **Asundor** » Monday Oct 16, 2006

I'd like to do more than that. They would lock me up If I told you what I wanted to do to him.

Trucula · Post by **Trucula** » Monday Oct 16, 2006

I feel your pain Jason and know where your coming from ..I also know what everyone else is saying too..We have the same kinda thing going on too....Ya give guys a chance because they seem to be into it and have a "pro" attitude at first but then goes down hill from there. No one can predict the future. I agree not to bash anyone because it does no more than make you look bad in everyone elses eyes..
We don't ask for much. I just can't see why guys can't tell you that this isn't what they really want to do and its not working, but they will help you out till you find a replacement...Not let you hang not knowing and don't show up. And you have to hear from everyone else but him.

Thing to do is buck up and make things better than before...

ZappasXWife · Post by **ZappasXWife** » Monday Oct 16, 2006

And i would never talk shit on someone from another band, like revealing bobby watters has "relations" with small farm animals.

AND large ones I heard....

PanzerFaust · Post by **PanzerFaust** » Monday Oct 16, 2006

AtoMikEnRtiA wrote:
PanzerFaust wrote:Seems the only one in favor, probably just wanted to have a little excitement in his life by living vicariously through Asunder and to make matters worse he is the one person on here known to have horrible opinions to begin with .... Am I not correct people? haha...
this statement coming from the one with horrible jokes.. am i not correct people? hahahaha

I'll throw down a "Yo Momma" contest with you any day Cowboy!!!

haha.....

Don't bring a stutter to a sarcasm fight......

AtoMikEnRtiA · Post by **AtoMikEnRtiA** » Monday Oct 16, 2006

PanzerFaust wrote:
AtoMikEnRtiA wrote:
PanzerFaust wrote:Seems the only one in favor, probably just wanted to have a little excitement in his life by living vicariously through Asunder and to make matters worse he is the one person on here known to have horrible opinions to begin with .... Am I not correct people? haha...
this statement coming from the one with horrible jokes.. am i not correct people? hahahaha

I'll throw down a "Yo Momma" contest with you any day Cowboy!!!

haha.....

Don't bring a stutter to a sarcasm fight......

im not too big on "yo momma" jokes.. it's not so much that i find them lame, it's just in your case.. i have nothing negative to say about your mom.. she sucks the best dick in 10 counties.. lol

Asundor · Post by **Asundor** » Monday Oct 16, 2006

O' God what the hell did I start. LOL

Banned · Post by **Banned** » Monday Oct 16, 2006

Yo, Yo mama so ugly she gets 364 extra days to dress up for Halloween. Word up, bitches!

Banned · Post by **Banned** » Monday Oct 16, 2006

Classic, baby, classic. Thank you, or should I say mad props to you, G of E.

skipisode · Post by **skipisode** » Monday Oct 16, 2006

First off, change your locks! There's a key looking for a home out there.

Seriously, being in a band takes commitment. If you don't have it, don't waste other people's time. It is hard finding the right mix of musicians to put a band together. The guy should have "fired" himself! I'm a firm believer in being upfront with your bandmates and telling them if you
have problems with schedules/material/ whatever. Honesty is the best policy! No bashing necessary, it will take care of itself. Good luck to you guys, and hope your search for a replacement is successful!

PanzerFaust · Post by **PanzerFaust** » Monday Oct 16, 2006

AtoMikEnRtiA wrote: im not too big on "yo momma" jokes.. it's not so much that i find them lame, it's just in your case.. i have nothing negative to say about your mom.. she sucks the best dick in 10 counties.. lol

Don't be so literal Jackass "Yo Momma" refers to the MTV show.... And more specifically is used as a euphemism for a verbal melee...

And it's no wonder you find them "lame" cause yours ARE!!!

Peace, Out, haha...

And are you insinuating your momma sucks all the WORST dicks in 10 counties? hmmm interesting bragging point..... How proud your momma must be....

Plastered Bastards · Post by **Plastered Bastards** » Monday Oct 16, 2006

Yo Momma is so dumb,she thinks Rosa Parks is a playground.

Yo Momma is so stank,the bitch put on Secret and it told!

LOL

Cheers!!!!!!!!!

HurricaneBob · Post by **HurricaneBob** » Monday Oct 16, 2006

Yo momma is so fat i rolled over 5 times and was still on da bitch..

jangel · Post by **jangel** » Monday Oct 16, 2006

Yo momma so fat ...back of her neck look like a pack of hot dogs

RobTheDrummer · Post by **RobTheDrummer** » Monday Oct 16, 2006

Here's one taken from the Simpsons.

"Yo momma's so fat, her ass has it's own congressman!"

songsmith · Post by **songsmith** » Monday Oct 16, 2006

Yo Momma so dumb it takes her an hour and a half to watch "60 Minutes."--------->JMS

PanzerFaust · Post by **PanzerFaust** » Tuesday Oct 17, 2006

ROFL.......

Lets keep the "YoMomma" jokes at bay guys, or Capt. Grammar will come in here and shut us down......

Banned · Post by **Banned** » Tuesday Oct 17, 2006

Yo Momma is so fat she gets her toenails painted at Earl Shine's (sp).

bassist4life2004 · Post by **bassist4life2004** » Tuesday Oct 17, 2006

Yo momma's so fat her blood type's Ragu

Capt. Grammar · Post by **Capt. Grammar** » Tuesday Oct 17, 2006

Your mother is so "stank" (street slang for smelly or otherwise offensive) she has to creep up on her bath water.

You're welcome.

Capt. Grammar · Post by **Capt. Grammar** » Tuesday Oct 17, 2006

Your mother is so fat, when she wore high heels, "the bitch" struck oil.

Hey, this is fun. Oh, and once again, you're welcome.